The seriousness of domestic violence

I came across this insightful, personal, touching and terrifying article the other day about domestic violence.

Two key parts I took from it:

“The laws remain difficult to enforce, partly because the term “domestic violence” is a misnomer. Abusive relationships often are less about actual violence than about control and power, which makes abuse even harder to define, enforce, and convict. Domestic violence involves a warped dynamic that—whether or not a criminal act has been committed—is often misunderstood by people outside the relationship. Still, as U.S. Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart once quipped about porn: “I know it when I see it.””

“Would she ever stop loving him? Krystal knew it was messed up. She knew she’d done the right thing for her kids and herself by running away. Still, she missed him. Or maybe just the idea of him.”

Then of course there is the usual refrain of, “Well, why doesn’t she just leave him?” If only it was that easy…


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